Sex Addicts Anonymous
I had the chance to chat with Joe "H", director of operations at Sex Addicts Anonymous , and he had some incredible things to say about using SAA as a resource, as well as getting started on your recovery journey, you can check out the interview below!
1. What are the tangible first steps that someone who is struggling
with sex addiction can take?
If an individual is struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors and wants to
know if they may have a sex addition, we have a self-assessment questionaire
that can be accessed by calling our toll free number at 1-800-477-8191 and
selecting the option to listen to the questions or they can go to our
website and access our basic pamphlet which describes our problem and has
the self-assessment questions.
If they determine they might be a sex addict, they may want to begin
attending our meetings which can be located on our website. If there are
no local meetings they can participate in one of our phone meetings which
are held daily. It is suggested they attend six meetings before deciding
if our program is right for them.
2. When someone who is struggling with sex addiction visits your site,
what can they get, what can they take away?
There is a tremendous amount of information on our website about sex
addiction and our program. Our program follows a 12 step program which
can be found on our website, in addition, the fellowship's view on
sobriety and how sponsorship works can also be found. They can also
access our newsletters, which contains personal stories of recovery of our
members.
3. What can someone who attends a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting expect?
First and most important they can expect acceptance no matter what they
have done in the past. We also do not discriminate based on sexual
preference. Anyone who has a desire to stop their harmful sexual
practices are welcome in our meetings. There are many meeting types, some
share around a topic, others work though the 12 steps of SAA and others
may have a speaker. Most of all those members who have worked the twelve
steps of SAA and have maintained sobriety, share their experience,
strength and hope. The meetings are a safe place to share those things in
your life you swore you would never tell anyone about. It about letting
go of the shame and finding new tools to help start you on the road to
recovery. It is a very spiritual environment but newcomers seldom feel
this in the beginning as they are buried in their pain and shame. There
is no requirement to share doing a meeting but those who continue to come
to meetings eventually feel safe and begin to share.
4. Do you have any stories of those who have benefitted from and found
hope and healing using the Sex Addicts Anonymous program?
We have many stories of hope and healing in our newsletters, which can be
found on our website. Our basic text, which we use for working the 12
steps of SAA also has stories of recovery. The basic text can be found on
our website under our store along with many other basic pamphlets on our
program. I personally have seen hundreds of men walk into their first
meeting, broken and in pain. Over they years many of these men become
healed as they work though recovery. By changing their lives, which means
living with honesty and integrity, they become better husbands, wives,
fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters and friends. They begin to change the
world around them by changing themselves. It is truly a miracle.
I hope this helps you. Thanks for creating a pathway for recovery for the
many addictions our society faces.





