Monday 21st April 2014,

Browsing the "advice" Category


Understanding Men and Demanding More of Them

“I’m never going to find myself a grown-ass man! I’m approaching 30 and still surrounded by children parading around as men. And the good ones always get snatched up immediately….” My friend makes this statement matter-of-factly while staring defiantly at [...]

April 9, 2014 advice, masculinity, Men, Women

The Biggest Lesson I’ve Ever Learned Came Through a Child

This past summer, I was working at a camp counseling young children while parents were in morning and evening chapel. A few weeks into the summer things began to get challenging for me. I hadn’t anticipated the amount of work [...]

April 7, 2014 advice, Doubt, Faith, God

Cheers! To My Haunting Past.

“I’m letting it set in that I have got to fight this unless I want to be the man I want to be.” – ME That’s how I feel sometimes. Other times I make excuses. Well….actually I used to make [...]

October 3, 2013 Addiction, advice, Blog, Community

Don’t Care, Not Listening, I’m Winning!

  It takes a lot to face yourself in a relationship. I’ve come to understand that being in an intimate relationship with my significant other has often times shown me the worst in myself. The selfishness, the lack of respect, [...]

September 16, 2013 advice, Blog, Dating, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Resolutions

.Be Heard.

“Today you are you, that is truer than true. There’s no one alive who is you-er than you.” – Dr. Seuss I love this quote because it reeks of individuality. And it’s so true, there’s nobody in this entire world [...]

August 16, 2013 Addiction, advice, Help, hope, Lies, Pain, Suffering, Suicide

Society Thinks You’re an Idiot

During a short period of time in my life I had really poor education because of the area I was living in. This was right after my parents got divorced. Eventually I moved to an area where there was a [...]

June 24, 2013 advice, Help, hope, purpose
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Dedication or an addiction?

Are you dedicated to your craft or consumed by addiction?   I’m just starting to realize that what a lot of people call their “career” “passion” or “desire” can often times be an unknown addiction in their heart, but no one seems [...]

May 9, 2013 Addiction, advice, Community, forgiveness, God, Grief, Honesty
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Stephen Christian of Anberlin Interview!

Stephen Christian of Anberlin shares his thoughts with HeartSupport! [...]

May 8, 2013 advice, Faith, Fear, Special Guest
Guest Blogger

Insecurity and the Other Sex

I’m sitting in my dorm room catching up on the latest buzz on the Heart Support website. It’s always encouraging reading the blogs, but after Ben Sledge’s The Things We Carry blog I felt a heaviness on my heart to [...]

May 3, 2013 advice, Insecurity, Men, Women

Masculinity: Part 2

“Does she ever remember you?” L.A. leans back, takes a sip of his beer, pauses, and stares off into the distance. He’s remembering something he’s long forgotten. A touch. A smile. Maybe the sound of her laugh. I repeat myself [...]

March 11, 2013 advice, masculinity, Men, Stories