Wednesday 23rd April 2014,

Browsing the "Men" Category


Understanding Men and Demanding More of Them

“I’m never going to find myself a grown-ass man! I’m approaching 30 and still surrounded by children parading around as men. And the good ones always get snatched up immediately….” My friend makes this statement matter-of-factly while staring defiantly at [...]

April 9, 2014 advice, masculinity, Men, Women

Violence Against Women Is A Men’s Issue

Today’s blog is from Justin Holcomb, the author of Rid of My DisGrace, whoose book we have been handing out for free recently and throughout the past year A common misconception is that sexual assault is just a “women’s issue” and up [...]

November 25, 2013 Abuse, Men, Sexual Abuse, Special Guest

Don’t Care, Not Listening, I’m Winning!

  It takes a lot to face yourself in a relationship. I’ve come to understand that being in an intimate relationship with my significant other has often times shown me the worst in myself. The selfishness, the lack of respect, [...]

September 16, 2013 advice, Blog, Dating, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Resolutions
Ben Sledge Bio

A Red Cape and a Mirror

“Well…….try it on.” My father turns me around and grabs two safety pins to pin the cloth to the back of my shirt. I can hardly contain my excitement and am anxious to run to the mirror and see how [...]

June 12, 2013 Blog, Grace, hope, masculinity, Men
Guest Blogger

Insecurity and the Other Sex

I’m sitting in my dorm room catching up on the latest buzz on the Heart Support website. It’s always encouraging reading the blogs, but after Ben Sledge’s The Things We Carry blog I felt a heaviness on my heart to [...]

May 3, 2013 advice, Insecurity, Men, Women

Masculinity: Part 2

“Does she ever remember you?” L.A. leans back, takes a sip of his beer, pauses, and stares off into the distance. He’s remembering something he’s long forgotten. A touch. A smile. Maybe the sound of her laugh. I repeat myself [...]

March 11, 2013 advice, masculinity, Men, Stories

Warning: 3 Valentine’s Day Expectations That Might Make You Explode

****Editors Note: Todays Blog is written by a Guest Blogger: Nathaniel Hilpert**** If you’re like most guys, you’d be hard-pressed to find anything inherently different about today than any other day of the year. Yet for some reason, on this [...]

February 14, 2013 advice, Dating, Guest Blog, Love, Men, Relationships, Women
Ben Sledge Bio

How to be a 5 Star Guy

“I’m gonna do it man…..I’m gonna tell her Dad” John says this with a pained nervousness in his voice. “….…this is gonna suck…..” “Yes it will John, but you want to be a man, right?  Not some little boy that [...]

November 29, 2012 advice, Dating, masculinity, Men, Relationships
Ben Sledge Bio

HELP! My Girlfriend’s A Drama Queen!

I spent my 21st birthday at a club called Ruby Skye in San Francisco, California. As the club was unbelievably trendy, my friends and I were decked to the nine’s dressed in slacks, button downs, and even a blazer for [...]

November 1, 2012 advice, Blog, Dating, Men, Relationships, Women
Video Bio Pic

The Sledges – How Did You Know Your Spouse Was “The One”?

Ben and Emily Sledge continue the Relationship Series by answering the age old question “How Did You Know Your Spouse Was ‘The One’”?   [...]

November 1, 2012 advice, Blog, Dating, Marriage, Men, Relationships, Video, Women